necessary subject to address and one that is often avoided by media due to its sensitive subject matter. This avoidance isn’t surprising as suicide can be upsetting to discuss, but it also speaks to how we manage these topics culturally – often, by omitting them. It’s rare then when an outlet chooses to tackle this subject head-on as is the case in Netflix’s 13 Reasons Why.
Even if you haven’t seen 13 Reasons Why, it’s likely you’ve heard about it. Clay and his friend, Hannah, who died by suicide after suffering bullying and sexual assault at the hands of her classmates, narrate the story through tapes Hannah recorded before her death that identify her peers and their role in her choice to end her life.
Because it visually portrays these acts, especially in such graphic fashion, 13 Reasons Why has been the subject of controversy since its release on March 31, 2017. Some praise it for addressing difficult but necessary topics and offering us a rare chance to discuss them openly. Others criticize it “for glorifying or romanticizing the act”* and posing severe risks to teens, who may be prone to “suicide contagion,” or the increase of suicides due to the exposure to suicide or suicidal behaviors.**
While we’ll leave you to decide your own stance on 13 Reasons Why, there’s no doubt that it’s forced adults and teens alike to start an essential dialogue on the subject. It’s also no surprise, given 13 Reasons Why’s setting, that much of this dialogue has taken place in middle and high schools, where many administrators have sent out letters warning of the show’s possible effects, urging parents and guardians to be aware of and prepared to process 13 Reasons Why with their child.***
However, there have also been many positive responses to 13 Reasons Why that are worth featuring. One of our favorite here at WISE is when a group of students at Oxford High School in Michigan created “13 Reasons Why Not” in the hopes of “reminding students that they are not alone.” Students, who were called to “share their…stories and list the positive people in their life,”* discussed a variety of topics, from bullying due to size or sexual orientation to mental health challenges, including depression. For 13 days, students shared their personal experiences over the intercom and chose to “focus on positive encounters that helped them get through tough times.” According to Todd Donckley, the principal, “the community has reacted…positively” and “the shift in the atmosphere…has been noticeably more welcoming.”***
According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, suicide is the 10th leading cause of death in the United States. Even more shocking is that suicide is the 3rd leading cause of death between 10 and 24 and the 2nd leading cause of death between 25 and 34. For more information, click here. These statistics not only exemplify how prevalent suicide is but also how important it is to be aware of and discuss. Even if 13 Reasons Why is under fire for failing to demonstrate positive connections or encourage hopefulness, everyone can agree that these statistics are way too high. This is especially true because suicide is difficult, but possible to prevent with close attention and acknowledgement. If you or someone you know is contemplating suicide, please call 1-800-273-8255 right away to receive confidential and free support. To hear stories of hope and resilience from others who are facing mental health challenges, please visit here.
Thanks,
Lucy, and the WISE team
* http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2017/05/12/13-reasons-why-not_n_16581456.html
** http://www.cnn.com/2017/04/25/health/13-reasons-why-teen-suicide-debate-explainer/index.html
*** http://www.cbsnews.com/news/13-reasons-why-not-oxford-high-school/ Here are some specific examples of what partnership with us can look like. Every plan is customized — this is just a starting point.
Classroom wellbeing auditClassroom teachers assess their current wellbeing supports, identify specific strengths and gaps, and actively engage with research-based strategies to create an action plan for supporting student wellbeing in the classroom. This audit is more than a checklist—it’s a mirror that reflects how your everyday choices shape the mental health and wellbeing of everyone in your classroom. By pausing to rate, reflect, and plan, you will:
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Specialized mental health skill-building workshopsThis goes beyond basic literacy to provide staff with practical skills and techniques for managing specific situations and promoting positive mental health within the school. Examples
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Adult SEL developmentJust as students benefit from developing social-emotional skills, so do adults. Adult SEL focuses on educators understanding their own emotions, managing impulses, setting goals, showing empathy, building healthy relationships, and making responsible decisions. Examples
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Integration of mental health into curriculumEmbedding mental health education within the regular curriculum normalizes these topics, reduces stigma, and equips all students with foundational knowledge and skills related to their emotional well-being. Rogers’ understanding of key mental health concepts can inform curriculum development. Examples
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Mental health literacy trainingThis partnership focuses on equipping school staff with a foundational understanding of mental health concepts, common disorders in children and adolescents, and the importance of early identification and intervention. Examples
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Trauma-Informed practicesTrauma-informed practice recognizes the widespread impact of trauma and understands potential paths for recovery. In a school setting, this means understanding that students (and staff) may have experienced trauma and that these experiences can affect behavior, relationships, and learning. Training helps staff recognize the signs of trauma, respond in a way that avoids re-traumatization, and create a safe and supportive environment. It also includes understanding secondary trauma or compassion fatigue that educators may experience when working with individuals who have experienced trauma. Examples
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Mindfulness and stress reduction workshops for staffMindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment without judgment. Stress reduction techniques are practical strategies designed to lower physiological and psychological responses to stress. Training in these areas equips educators with tools to manage the inherent demands and pressures of their job, cultivate a sense of calm, and increase their capacity to be present and responsive. Examples
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Building resilience (CLE)Resilience is the ability to adapt well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or significant sources of stress. Training in resilience helps educators identify their strengths, develop positive coping mechanisms, cultivate optimism, and build strong support networks. Examples
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Enhancing school climate – for the staffSchool climate refers to the quality and character of school life. A positive school climate for staff is characterized by trust, respect, collegiality, collaboration, and a sense of belonging. Consultation focuses on identifying areas for improvement and implementing strategies to foster a more supportive and positive environment. Examples
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Needs assessment and strategic planning (CLE)A systematic process of gathering information about the current state of staff wellbeing within the school, identifying key stressors, and understanding the needs and preferences of the staff. This data then informs the development of a targeted and effective plan for implementing wellbeing initiatives. Examples
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Developing supportive policies and practicesExamining existing school policies, procedures, and unwritten norms to identify those that may contribute to staff stress or hinder wellbeing. Consulting on modifications or new policies that actively promote a healthy work environment. Examples
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Consultation on school mental health systemsThis involves leveraging Rogers’ understanding of best practices in mental health care to advise schools on the development and implementation of comprehensive systems that support student and staff well-being. Examples
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Integrating wellbeing into existing structuresEmbedding wellbeing initiatives within the school’s existing operational framework rather than treating them as separate, add-on programs. This ensures long-term sustainability and demonstrates that wellbeing is a priority. Examples
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Leadership coachingCoaching specifically designed for school administrators and team leaders. This focuses on developing their leadership skills related to supporting staff wellbeing, creating a positive team culture, and effectively managing workplace dynamics that can impact stress levels. Examples
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Individual wellbeing coachingA confidential and supportive partnership between a trained coach and an individual staff member. The coach helps the staff member identify their wellbeing goals, explore challenges, develop strategies, and build self-awareness and resilience. This is particularly helpful for staff experiencing high levels of stress, burnout, or those seeking to proactively enhance their wellbeing. Examples
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Instructional coaching with a wellbeing lensIntegrating conversations and support around wellbeing into existing instructional coaching cycles. This recognizes that teacher wellbeing is intertwined with their classroom practice and provides a holistic approach to support. Examples
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Peer coaching programsTraining selected staff members to serve as peer coaches for their colleagues. This leverages internal expertise and fosters a culture of mutual support within the school. Peer coaches can provide a confidential and relatable source of support, sharing strategies and offering encouragement. Examples
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